If you had not worked it out then you are risking your marriage. It's in your hand to build your home the way you deemed it fit. Here we are going to see things that will cause your husband to marvel at your sight. You look beautiful that still doesn't guarantee 100% love from your husband. To cherish a lovely wife there is more to beauty. Flirting with clean body and giving him sweet calm environment and other things we are going to be looking at those are expected of you.
How To Make Your Man Hunger To Have You In A Minute
1. Stress And Depression
Where do you see difference between the male culture and female culture causing tension in your marriage? How can understanding the source of some of the differences between you and your husband help minimize the stress they cause? Most women are first attracted to a man, and then they move to feelings of love. Wanting to be intimate with her man comes later when she can trust him (hopefully for both it will occur in the wedding night "sounds sweet and romantic") but to the man there is more to love making. He needs a woman who will take care of his stress and depression read also, Easiest ways to make someone feel loved Don't expect a man who had a hectic day to be romantic. What you owe him is understanding and support him to manage his stress and depression.
2. Family Overload
When the man is heavy laddened with so much responsibility to shoulder you still expect him to be romantic when you don't help or assist him in any little way you can. Our creator gave us that husband is to be strong where they are weak, wives are helpmeet so she should live as one.
3. Insignificant Spouse
Being insignificant means the woman is not filling her vacuum as a wife. She is there and it seems she isn't there. She flaws in her responsibility. He sees her as less important but liability to him. Love your mate God has given you. Loving your husband doesn't mean changing him. You may still become irritated, frustrated by some of your mates actions but at least you will be growing in the knowledge of why he is doing what he is doing. Understand him and help him in footing some bills and doing other domestic activities.
4. Crowded Responsibility
This is equivalent to the previous. We are committed to Christ as the foundation of our home and our relationship, in same vain you should be dedicated to being his helpmate, respecting him as your husband and in fixing the home. This agreement enables the both of you to work round the clock and around your differences in positive ways. When you show him you care and you act fully involved he has no choice than to lick your fingers and toes.
5. Family Shackles
When the man is restless, he has no peace, you end up reminding him of awaiting problems each time he wants to show you how much he loves you. You wouldn't allow him to express his feelings, you can't start or end any moment of interlude you share with him without the mention of money. You either remind him of the designers wears, Italian shoes and bags to fit your standards or you demand he takes you out for shopping probably the best and most expensive boutique that may look classy. If you have not reminded him of that exotic car he has promised to order for your, you remember one unimportant thing just to satisfy your taste and quench your thirst and desire to live extravagant lifestyle. One thing you forget that you are building your home on a sandy soil instead of a solid foundation. This goes as far as pushing the man away and murdering your romantic relationship.
6. Unattractive Spouse
Looks and how you keep your body. Remember how much you enjoyed looking terrible in the funny mirror at amusement parks when you were a child. It was fun because you know you really did not look like that. You could always find a real mirror and be who you were. In marriage each partner becomes the mirror for the other. Often a problem in a bad marriage is working like those old amusement park mirror. A spouse begins to reflect ugly things perhaps she has lost her eight figure‐body or shabby body physique far from his taste, she feels that her best self isn't there anymore because you gave him the impression that you have loosened up and no longer look attractive for him like you used to. But we forget one thing that mirrors reflect in simply ways, people are far more complicated. We choose what we reflect and what we choose has much to do with what the other person becomes.
Here one of the most exciting things about being married is helping your partner become his or her best self by reflecting with love.
7. Laziness
When you are too lazy to look after yourself and your home, you leave your husband with no choice but to stay a thousand miles away from your reach. He can't stand you. Men need to be taken care of, they are like babies. You are there to take care of him but when you fail to perform your womanly duty and take charge of the wife you don't feed him when he is hunger, you don't serve him breakfast before he leaves, don't warm his bathing water in cold when it's necessary. You are simply pushing him away and such a man can never be romantic. He may tolerate this at the early marriage because of love but I assure you it won't last.
8. Uncomfortable Home
Instead of having a romantic pillow talk you raise a topic that enrages anger in him. Making the environment not conducive for him. Do you know that men need peace? after the days hustle and rough time, they return home only to be welcomed with a brutal
ruffled face. The room not arranged, everything scattered and not in their right place. This makes a lazy woman. The man can't be romantic in such environment. If we want love and romance we create calm and not a siren environment when the noise in the background is fluctuating and affecting you and your spouse to have good time. They love flows more and sweet when the environment becomes calm and quiet.
9. Unlovable or Unloving partner
Women like rose flowers, romantic talk those stir up or gear the feelings so do men. Women love to be romanced with flowers, a love note, a box of candy or suggestions of intimacy so do men. The want to be appreciated and recognized as kings and your head even while he holds your arms, in bed, the only difference woman should respect is that unlike women it takes men not longer to become fully aroused. And it's only a lovable partner can interest and attract the husband to desire them at all time. Burning love candle, adorn and shower praises on your man, declaring how important he is and how lucky you are to have him, employ rejuvenating words, read also, standard meaning of love
10. Dull, Moody and unexciting spouse
Just like what we read previously about unattractive spouse. She is dull and moody most times perhaps that wasn't what you saw before taking her to walk down the aisle. And now she is no longer what she used to be. She is unexciting and can't arouse you anymore even. That's sad but remember positive reflecting will make your spouse feel good about herself and about you but it will also change the way you feel. And as you look for the positive and overlook the negative, you will become happier about your marriage and the person you married. You really have to improve and learn how to induce a seductive mood. If possible wear linen clothes, skimpy skirts, pants to walk round the house whenever he's around. This will do a whole lot good for your marriage.
11. Emotionless partner
If you are not emotional tell me how your husband will be romantic. You don't have to be hard, be amenable, and very soft. Yes I know that women need to feel emotionally secure in order to become fully aroused in bed. The man is your husband what stops you from feeling soft and free, protected and secure around him unless you feel nothing for him. Read also, 5 secrets of growinglove that lasts in a relationship. Most women are first attracted to a man and then they move to feeling of love, that's understandable but not after you both have agreed and got married to each other, there is nothing to force emotions to flow. It should flow without muscle.
12. Dirty And Unkempt spouse
No man can be romantic to a dirty, unkempt and smelling stinking woman. It doesn't work easy that way. Except the man is a bulldozer. Take daily shower, twice or thrice a day. Wear neat underwear and clothes,look sharp for him. Brush your teeth twice a day. Keep your hair clean and make sure your weave on and wigs are clean. Smear sweet fragrance perfume. Check your breath, very important because no man would want to kiss a soured tongue or smelling mouth, the kiss can't go down well in such situations.
The truth remains that the longer you are married, the more you will see that happiness in marriage doesn't just happen. Hold hands with your wife and tell her of your love. Don't take her for granted, and don't take him for granted too. Love with a willing heart and every other thing will fall in place. Understanding is the key and tolerance holds the tied knot firm.
Hope you learned something good from this site. May God bless your marriage and relationship.
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