Let him feel the emptiness, your absence because men don't recognize you if you are always available. Every time you are at home. Whenever he comes home he sees you. As his
partner in that relationship you need to make him feel that emptiness, the vacuum that will make him yawn to have you.
Love is very sweet and bitter. Love is patient and kind, never boastful or proud. Love is never oppressive or possessive. Make sure your words and actions don't discourage your partner and keep her from growing and developing in her spiritual life, her homemaking skills, and even her hobbies. Loosen the reins and give your wife permission to be all that Almighty wants her to be. This means she must be given time away from you and the family (if any) to improve her interest and skills that might be different than yours.
Ask after the price and pay her that freedom. Having her around will most times get bored and you will easily get tired of her presence. So give her some yards of space away from home that you can feel her absence and recognize her presence when she is around or pays a visit ( in case of courtship) Be willing to allow for shifts in her friendship with you. As the seasons of your lives change, you will notice variations in your relationship. Fun season, increase tiredness, an adjustment in the area of eros satisfaction, and greater demand on your friendship and a season of little space or break but not too much space because if left unchecked for too long friendship with her (your partner) will become strained. Learn when to keep your distance and at same time maintain your friendship.
Marital fiction is not so much from husbands and wives being physically emotionally psychologically and culturally different but that we don't understand our differences and accommodate them in our relationship. What circumstances have caused you to think she is not acting as usual in your marriage or courtship? Yes it's true women would want to rather expect men to think and act as they do? Do you sometimes as a man say something like what's wrong with our relationship? She doesn't even care about me? She doesn't even come home early after work and spend the weekends with me anymore? Instead when I call her on telephone one of her female friends would be saying she is there with her? Her own way of keeping her guard to preserve her reserved pride?
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She wants you to miss her.
She want you to feel the emptiness.
She wants you to feel her absence
She wants you to value her presence whenever she shows up or around.
This is because when you are staying together you are always concerned about satisfying your libido. You want her to be romantic and huggy all the time. But know this: most women can't waste their time doing that when they have got so many things to do especially workaholics. Though a working class lady should give time to her relationship but don't expect all her time to be spent on you.
So she tries so hard to create that time for herself to fix her work stuff and self since you are serving as a nuisance to her and selfish at the same time. A sane and wise man should know that she is trying to avoid over familiarity especially when it is (courtship) but as a married woman she wants to cool off and give or pay more attention to herself. The fact and that the thought men are weird and women are strange.
Try to know her problem and know when to move and when not. Know when she gives red signal and when the green light shows in her eyes. Women love men who respect their feelings and emotions and love them genuinely not men who would want their body day break like they are masturbating machines or what? Because a lot of men are prone to abuse even their own very partner simply because they don't want to be taken for granted that is why some women wear a lot of masks—this becomes a problem because they might not remember which face is for which occassion!
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